Monday, November 28, 2016

A Response to Gail: The Memories That Carry Us

            Like Gail, what keeps me on the road are the memories I carry with me. Standing Rock was both equally beautiful and heart-wrenching. There are so many things in the news that are breaking my heart these days. Between Trump’s election and the violence I read about day after day, it’s easy to lose hope.
            The only thing that keeps me energized is meeting people. I met Gail when I was losing perspective at the protest. A few of my friends had been arrested the day before, and there was a lot of violence involved; these videos were not released on TV. I knew that things were bad out there and that a lot of people were getting hurt. However, I had no idea about the severity of the Pipeline’s police force. I thought, at minimum, the American public was seeing the harsh reality of what was actually going on via newspapers and TV. This was not the case.
            I was depressed to the point of inaction when Gail came along. I had no idea how to move forward, so I slept. And I slept. And I slept. And I slept.
            Gail caught me as I was packing up my bags to leave. I wasn’t able to help anymore, so I thought I would leave to regain strength and return to the protests again later. She thought I was striding confidently towards a group gathered on the field; I really was “striding confidently” towards a few friends to say goodbye.

Gail was funny and poised and honest – I saw a version of womanhood that I wanted to be when I grew up. She seemed timid about getting involved, but her desire to show up anyways reminded me why I was there: to fight for love. Although I did decide to leave and recalibrate at a friend’s house in Colorado, I left with a clear mind and full heart. I knew that I wanted to continue supporting No Dapl in the best way I could, for the people like Gail, and for the people who took me in on the protest grounds as we fought for a better world together.

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